About three weeks ago I took in a 4 1/2 month old baby girl that was just the cutest thing you ever saw- until you put her down.
The first couple of days I had her, she was only here for about 4 or 5 hours at a time and I though the crying might be because she didn't know me and she had never been away from her Mom- WRONG!
Last week, I started having her 9 1/2 hours a day when Mom went back to work. The mornings started out good, and it just progressively got worse. She is a breast fed baby and had never taken a bottle before, so needless to say, the first day when she ate 2 1/2 oz. in a 9.5 hour day, I was pretty excited. I was happy to get something in her!
Jacob and Mason were excited to have a cute little baby here to play with; well Jacob anyway, but that quickly changed as well. By Wednesday, everyone was on edge and really not liking the cute little bundle of screaming flesh. One of my other childcare kids called the baby a robot. When ever you put her down she would scream until she would not make sound. As soon as you picked her up, she would instantly stop-she was like a robot with an on and off switch.
On Wednesday, I told her Mom that I didn't think it was going to work out and that I would let her know on Friday if I would be able to watch her anymore. I told her it just wasn't fair to her daughter or the other four children I care for. The little boys walked around with their fingers in their ears, and the two
bigs wouldn't come down from upstairs-not even to eat! Her Mom was upset, but I had to think of the other children, as well as my sanity.
Last Friday was the babies last day, and I am sad to say that I was happy to see her go. I don't like to admit defeat, but I just couldn't take it anymore. I quit my job so that I could say at home and play with my kids, not to sit and hold a stranger's child all day!
*Now I am going to get on my soap box a minute!
- If you are going back to work after your child is born, DO NOT sit and hold your baby all day long! You can spoil them, and it won't continue at daycare!
- If you breast fed you baby, try to introduce the bottle early in their life, and don't force your childcare provider to be the one to break them!
- BE HONEST! If your child is difficult, say that up front!